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More and more often, products are made and stores are designed
specifically to appeal to children. Try as you might, you can’t
keep your child from seeing advertisements and products, but you
can decrease their influence on your child.
The goal is to get your child in the habit of thinking about what
he is asking for rather than immediately demanding what he sees.
This is no easy task. It will require a good deal of patience and
creative thinking on your part. But there is good news: Breaking
the habit of “needing” something right away gets easier
as children age.
Five Ways to Fight Advertising
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Mute or talk back to TV ads
As a way to teach your child that he can question what he sees,
ask questions and make comments yourself: How would you like
to make something like that ourselves? That doesn’t look
like something we do when we go to the park. That looks like
it will break.
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Turn in-store requests into art projects
You might say: We don’t have to buy a card for Grandma
because we can make one of our own with glitter. I bet we can
use food coloring to create some cool holiday cookies at home.
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Before you enter a store, let your child know what
he can and cannot have
A quick reminder beforehand helps manage your child’s
expectations: We’re here just to grab a few groceries
and nothing extra.
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Read product labels with your child
Your preschooler will not be able to make out the words —
you may stumble over some yourself — but get your child
in the habit of asking questions about products: What is this
made of? What do we know about this food that the commercial
didn’t tell us?
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Keep a running list for special requests.
When your child seems determined to have something, ask: Should
we put that on your birthday wish list?
Source: PBSParents.org |