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The Teacher’s Role
You may find yourself thinking,
“I’m not a counselor! This is not my job!”
That is understandable. Teachers are not expected to be
counselors, but they do have children who have been affected
by trauma or loss in their classrooms. It is helpful to
recognize that a problem may exist and to know what to do
about it.
Creating an Emotionally Safe Classroom
Just as you strive to have a physically safe classroom
where children don’t get hurt, you should also provide
an emotionally safe classroom. If a child does not feel
safe in the classroom, then chances are good that learning
will not happen.
It is relatively easy to determine if a classroom is
physically safe. Is it sufficiently warm in the winter?
Are sharp objects kept away from children? But it’s
not as easy to determine the emotional safety of a classroom.
Edward de Bono, a leading authority in the field of creative
thinking, stresses the importance of emotional safety
in the classroom on his Web site, www.edwdebono.com.
An emotionally safe classroom includes these aspects:
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Belonging — The
teacher sets standards that require the compliance of
students. For example, the rule that one person speaks
at a time gives value to what the student says and teaches
good manners as well.
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Achieving —
The students must have the possibility of meeting the
academic expectations that you set for them.
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Consistency —
The teacher explains the expectations for the class
and consistently applies them.
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Meaning — Students
need to see a personal meaning in their class work.
This helps them to feel connected and safe.
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Acting as a role model
— If the teacher can help a child see how to negotiate
the traps and obstacles of life, the child will feel
safer.
Creating Places of Emotional Safety: Another
Viewpoint
Beryl Lourens, an educational consultant
specializing in emotional literacy, describes her work to
create emotionally safe places for children. She uses the
“I Can” model, which encourages a classroom
climate where children are valued, supported and affirmed.
Briefly, the model states:
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I am good —
The foundation for an emotionally safe classroom is
good values — structures, procedures and strategies
that promote character-building on a daily basis.
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I am loved —
Teachers model good values at all times, respecting
themselves and the children and, in turn, expecting
them to do the same.
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I belong — Values
such as respect and compassion contribute to the development
of a strong classroom community.
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I can make good decisions
— The use of democratic procedures gives children
the opportunity to be involved in some decision-making.
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I can feel and understand
— Teachers use strategies to help children identify
and talk about their emotions.
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I can think —
Children gain confidence in their ability to solve everyday
problems through the teaching and practice of creative
and critical thinking skills.
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I can manage conflict
— Children are taught conflict resolution strategies.
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I can learn well —
Teachers recognize and use methods that are appropriate
for children with different learning styles and multiple
intelligences.
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Whole school —
Not only should the classroom be safe, but also the
entire school should offer a caring atmosphere.
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Parents and caregivers
— Parents and caregivers are the primary educator
of the child. Schools need to reach out to parents whenever
possible and encourage them to support the values encouraged
in the school setting.
This diagram shows the “I Can”
philosophy.

Creating Places of Emotional Safety: A Third
Model
Nina Kucyk, a trauma and loss counselor
at Mercy Medical Center in Canton, Ohio, states, “The
need for safety — physical, emotional and psychological
— is so basic and important that unless met, higher-level
needs, such as belonging, wanting to succeed, etc., become
extremely difficult to achieve.” Kucyk sees the learning
environment as a place where students experience the following:
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Feel a sense of belonging
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Have permission to make mistakes
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Have permission to forget
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Are encouraged
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Are valued for their unique skills
and talents
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Have the ability to make choices
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Are free from judgment
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Are respected for their physical appearance
and academic, athletic, creative and social capabilities
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Have the freedom to have and to express
their own feelings and opinions without fear of recrimination
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